How many ladies agree with this? There are a number of things you should avoid if you wish to have a good dating relationship with your man. Lets take a look at them so that you can avoid them.
1. Avoid being the first to say ”I love you”. You may say this as a way of making him say he loves you too, good intention, but you should not try to push him to say something he is not yet prepared for.
2. Avoid unneccessary confrontation. If he promised to call but didn’t, don’t confront him and start asking why he did not call. You will be basically accussing him of not caring for you, and it is more likely that you will make him turn defensive.
3. Do not press on him. Lets assume you both went out for a date for the first time, do not press him to tell you when you should expect to see him once more. If he is really interested, he will get in touch. On the other hand, if he is not interested, then you should not keep your life on hold for him
4. Avoid always trying to know where he was. In a case where he promised to come see you but failed to meet up, you should not ask him where he has been. The hidden question is really whether he was out with another girl, which will just show your fear and in security.
5. Avoid to always try to know his relationship with other women. In case he had gone out with another woman, you will simply put both of you in an uncomfortable position when you ask him whether he went to bed with her. Even if he did, he is not doing it now.
6. Still don’t press him. Whether you have just started going out with a guy or you have dated for some time, do not press him with the question as where your relationship is going. If the relationship is promising, you will simply know from his actions.
7. Discuss casually at the appropriate time. If you have something you would like to discuss with him, bring it up casually at an appropriate time. When you tell him that you would like to have a talk, he will automatically become defensive as he does not espectthe conversation to be enjoyable. You just need to choose your time well.
8. Maintain your cool. However much he has hurt you, going around stating how you have him won’t solve the issue. In fact, when you maintain your cool even during a breakup, youn will win his admiration. But throwing temper tantrums will only push him further away from you.
9. Don’t tell a man youb don’t trust him. In case you suspect that he been up to no good, telling that you don’t trust him won’t make him change. Instead, he will just get more careful, and you won’t be able to get the much needed evidence.
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